No, you really can't have your cake and eat it too, but that's exactly what a lot of people want and even expect from bankruptcy. They look on bankruptcy as a magic potion that will solve all of their financial problems and let them live the lifestyle they dream of (and were probably living in the first place). Bankruptcy is a serious step and requires serious effort. It is possible, even likely, that when someone files bankruptcy they will lose their house, their car, their boat, and a lot of other things that they financed. The reason is, if they can't make the payments before filing, they won't be able to make the payments after filing.
Instead of focusing on what they lose by filing bankruptcy, they should look at what they gain: Freedom from debt collectors. Freedom from robbing Peter to pay Paul. Freedom from working two or three jobs to make ends meet. Freedom to spend more time with family and friends. The chance to start over.
Bankruptcy is intended as a second chance. The "fresh start" concept is central to bankruptcy. But a fresh start doesn't mean going back and doing the same things over again, making the same mistakes, incurring the same debt. It means starting over and doing it better this time. This probably means living within your means, absolutely, positively not buying anything you don't need and setting priorities among what you do buy. It's hard, but bankruptcy wasn't meant to be a simple solution. And in the end, it's worth it.
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